Are you dealing with a “gentle bully” – someone subtly manipulative and controlling? On “What’s Trending”, hosts Patricia Wu, Jessica Reyes, and guest MHTN Chief Medical Officer Dr. Dan Bober discuss a Psychology Today article highlighting 6 sneaky tactics these bullies use.
Gentle Bullies” Use Charm as a Weapon
They declare their “niceness”, but this actually lowers your guard for manipulation. Remember, actions speak louder than words.
Blame Shifting and Gaslighting
These bullies externalize blame and twist your words. This is classic gaslighting and mirrors narcissistic behavior.
Dealing with Subtle Bullying
Bystander intervention is vital. Ignoring a bully or trying to appease them doesn’t stop the behavior.
